Hi! It’s Nookie, NookieNotes on FetLife, with another episode of Ask About Kink from Dating Kinky.com and Darkside Magazine.
Here’s our question:
Q. Wearing women’s panties is something i find very arousing both on my own and as part of a D/s experience with a Woman. Just thinking about it gets my heart beating a little faster. Wearing them for a woman gets me in a hot yet submissive mood. I’m not a sissy, I am just a typical guy who finds himself drawn to wearing Women’s panties.Is it odd for me to have this type of fetish? Is it okay for me to embrace it? What can i do to further my exploration of this fetish?
A. Odd. Well, odd for kinky guys? Not really. Odd for the general public, sure. But then so is most everything about how I choose to live my lifestyle.
If odd is an issue for you, understand that odd is what makes people valuable. Look at Lady Gaga, Bob Dylan, Elvis… They are not ordinary.
Maybe odd is the wrong word. Extraordinary? That seems to fit better. *smiles*
YES! It is OK to embrace it. Absolutely.
As far as how to exploring it further, well, that sort of depends on if you have a partner or not.
If you do, connect with her, discuss it, choose some situations that might also get her hot as well. Maybe look on Tumblr (my favorite porn spot!) for some ideas to share between you.
If it’s just you, I’d be careful. It’s easy to get obsessed on your own, and take something too far, essentially making yourself less compatible with a majority of people… That’s often how sissyfication begins.
And that’s not to say that sissyfication is bad. At all. It just narrows your potential choices of mates, as many women prefer to explore kinks with their man, versus having them fully “pre-installed.”
As I told someone the other day, if you MUST have a particular sensation to get excited, and I’m never enough on my own, then I might feel like I’m not what matters, but instead anyone who can do that thing for you will do…
However, if you want to play some on your own, why not try getting some in your very own size and shape from PantieHeaven ( https://www.etsy.com/shop/PantieHeaven )? They are feminine panties made for men, with some extra room for your outie.
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