"Hey Sandman, I now realize there is no loyalty with women, and once they have it in their head they can attract someone better they will drop you and move on or even manipulate you into being a backup plan and an ego boost to them like I was. My story is I was with my ex girlfriend for seven years. She was 420 pounds and 5'3". I loved her very much and she was my best friend and companion, even though we had our ups and downs. We broke up a few times but always ended up getting back together and the problems we had before had a way of working themselves out from what we learned. I was always worried about her weight, because she had knee problems and had problems with stairs and had difficulty on airplanes. Plus it killed me inside when people would look at her like a freak of nature and sometimes giggle at her behind her back. We talked about her plans for weight loss many times and how we wanted to be the kind of couple that plays tennis together and rides bikes and so on. We wanted to get married at some point and the thing was I wanted her to be healthy and look good in her wedding dress and so on. And we wanted to get a house together, but all this was contingent upon her losing weight and she agreed to get the weigh loss surgery. Things seemed to be going great and I asked her dad if I could marry her and I got his blessing, and her family always said I was an honorary Italian and was part of the family. Well fast forward to a year later when she loses 150 lbs, a month after we moved into the new house (which was completely in her name and I was just going to pay rent fortunately) she tells me she went behind my back and went on OKCupid and met a married guy and wanted to have an open relationship now. So she could keep him "as a lover" but I would be her fiancee. This destroyed me inside, and I told her she was killing me and it was hurting my feelings burt she got angry with me. As she got more and more obsessed over this man it got to the point where she argued with me to the point that I never saw anyone so hateful and mean spirited in my life. I did not know what happened it felt like my world collapsed. I had a failed suicide attempt and we ended up going to couples counseling to try to resolve this. The only reason why I am not dead is because her steak knives were dull. Anyhow, This counseling was a waste of time because she came out and told the counselor she “wanted her cake and eat it too” and “wanted sparks and novelty but I was just a warm glow and she was looking for those exciting tingles she needs”. This was killing me more and more and she told me she wanted a “break” not a “break up” (which to me seemed stupid) so I slept in the spare bedroom because it was too much pain to bare. As soon as I did I heard her talking to other guys she met online and was acting like a 14 year old girl all over again.
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1. Voy - Smiling Summer Woman Holds Cakes In Hand
2. Artisticco LLC - Overweight Woman Eating Fast Food
3. darkbird - Beautiful Plus Size Woman With Ok Gesture With Her Hands Isolated
4. olly2 - Fat woman crossing a city street
5. Kletr - Overweight woman with a weighing machine and measure tape.
6. JackyBrown - Two Women Gossip About Their Fat Friend
7. olly2 - Chubby woman sitting on a giant hamburger
8. Poznyakov - Women giving hamburger in camera . Fast food in our lives
9. Kletr - Overweight woman wake up. Early morning in the bedroom.
10. Kletr - Overweight woman with a weighing machine and measure tape.